Trip reports, ramblings, photos and videos from our life in Europe. Please feel free to send comments and keep me updated with your emails!
Saturday, December 12, 2009
Week 38 - Welcome Lucas Elijah Castro!
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Week 37
Edgar is working so hard to get our flat ready for the baby. I do what I can, but it's not much these days. He is such a superstar and I really can't say how much I appreciate him. He is the perfect partner for this journey and I really could not have made it without him. He has fed me, clothed me, cleaned up after me, painted my toenails, provided me with endless ice cream...the list really is endless. I have a pregnancy journal that chronicles the changes in baby and myself on a daily basis, and since I've received it, he's read it every single night. It's our ritual before we go to sleep. I love him so much.
Mom and Dad arrive on Tuesday morning. We are very excited to have them for a few weeks! It should be a great Christmas!!!
Thursday, November 26, 2009
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Week 36
We finished our prenatal classes this past Monday and I have to say I was thoroughly impressed with them. Not that you can ever be fully prepared to be a parent, but the organization I took the classes through focuses on the whole process of having a baby, from pregnancy and birth, right on through to the transition to parenthood. So we learned alot more than just the stages of labor and the pain relief options, we learned what we would go through personally and as a couple and how to tackle some of the common obstacles that can make that transition more difficult. We met so many people right here in Richmond and now have 14 instant friends in the same position as us. The women in the group are fabulous and I am so lucky that they all live literally a block away from me. In fact, we were all so sad that the classes ended, that we are keeping our usual Monday night time slot open, but instead of meeting for class we are going to meet at different pubs and just hang out...at least until we start dropping like flies and then eventually start showing up again with newborns.
Sorry for the lack of posting on Week 35. Edgar and I came down with some kind of stomach virus on Wednesday and I spent Thursday at the doctor's offices and the hospital for monitoring, etc. to make sure everything was OK. I was pretty dehydrated, but the baby and myself checked out fine in the end. I was just sent home and told to sip water and sleep. By Sunday, we were fine and back to normal. Thanks to those of you who kept me on my toes (...Sharla).
Saturday, November 07, 2009
A Package from Home!!
Friday, November 06, 2009
A Perfect Viva Baby Shower
I was completely and utterly surprised when I opened an evite from Amber last month. She is always on top of the latest cool thing to have a party for...Pampered Chef, wall stencils, and well, other things...so I thought she had found some great new invention that I would have to check out. WRONG! It was an invitation for a baby shower in honor of ME, given by my best girlfriends-the Vivas-Amber, Carolyn, Marisa, Leslie and everyone's significant others!
Throughout my pregnancy I had tried to play it cool and act like the fact that I wouldn't have a good ole traditional American baby shower didn't bother me. But the closer I got to my due date, and the more my belly expanded, the sadder I got knowing I would miss out on this right of passage for every new mom-to-be. I tried to act like it was ok that I wouldn't play all the silly games, devour some cake and punch, and basically be the center of attention.
About a week before the shower, a package arrived from Marisa containing napkins, decorations, a CD with a great mix of music, and some little gifts. Little did I know all that was going on behind the scenes. James and Edgar were busy preparing the best chat-Skype vs. Google (Google won hands down). Edgar had been receiving emailed instructions throughout the week from everyone, and he had been busy getting everything ready on this side of the world.
So, this is how it went down (as my nephew Brody would say)...Our Google chat rings, we answer, and there is everyone on the screen with huge smiles on their faces. We started with snack time. Everyone at Amber's house had some great nibbles while Edgar handed me a plate of goodies he had prepared. We then went on to the party phase. We started with the tummy measure game. Amber was the winner, hitting my waist size spot on. I am going to overlook those who guessed my waist to be over five feet around ;) The camera does add 10 pounds! We did a word scramble/unscramble, and we drew a picture of the baby on paper plates while holding them on top of our heads. We then went on to the cake phase. While everyone pigged out on cake-Amber had gotten them a delicious chocolate on chocolate because that's my favorite-James held a baby-daddy-boot-camp for Edgar. He gave him the in's and out's on diaper changing, feeding, and how to get the baby into and out of those baby carrier contraptions. They finished with the diaper race, which I'm proud to say, Edgar won! After cake was gift time! Now this was a very clever idea...since it would be pretty impractical to ship gifts all the way over here, they had emailed Edgar pictures of the gifts they had purchased for us. He printed them out and put them in envelopes for me to open. I really felt like I was opening real gifts! We'll actually receive them when we move back. After gifts, it was entertainment time! Leslie, Carolyn, and Marisa did a hilarious rendition of our new favorite song, "Cheese Enchilada" by Big Smith. If you've never heard it, look it up! Amber and Cade then sang us a few original songs that we can sing to our Little Baby when he is taking a bath.
The end of the shower was upon us and they had saved the best for last. Edgar presented me with a package of Huggies and it was explained by Carolyn that each diaper contained some piece of advice or inspiration that I would discover throughout the use of the diapers. Everyone involved in the shower had emailed Edgar these little nuggets (no pun intended) of love and he had printed them out, cut them into individual pieces and placed one each in a diaper. I don't know why, but this just made me cry so hard. I knew that everyone had worked very hard to put this together, unbeknownst to me, and this just showed the thought that went into each and everything. All combined, they had sent enough tidbits for over 50 diapers!
I tried to express how genuinely happy I was to have been the recipient of such a thoughtful experience, but I was all choked up and couldn't even speak. I just buried my head in Edgar's shoulder and had a good cry (and trust me, when I get started these days, it's hard to stop). And then everyone else did to. I think all I could squeak out was "Thank you so much". I can't tell you how much this meant to me. I really felt like I got to experience the same thing every one else does. It didn't matter that I was in a different country or time zone, I felt like I was right there.
So...just when I thought it couldn't get any better, I get an evite from my sister a few weeks ago, and it seems I get to do it all over again with my family!!! How in the world did I get so lucky in life? I have the best friends, family and husband I could ever ask for. It's not easy being so far away from everyone you love (except for Edgar, of course) during a time as special as this. It just means so much to me that people have taken the time and made the effort to make me feel extra special. I appreciate it all and can't wait to report on virtual shower #2 in the very near future!
Sunday, November 01, 2009
Week 33
Inherit the Wind
On Thursday evening, we saw a play at the Old Vic Theater, just down the road from Waterloo Station. Inherit the Wind stars Kevin Spacey as a defense attorney for a young school teacher in 1925 Hillsboro, Tennessee-a very conservative, religious community-and is based on the real life "Scopes monkey trial". The teacher's crime was teaching Darwin's theory of evolution, a crime back in those days. It was a critically acclaimed movie in 1960 with Spencer Tracy as the famous defense attorney. Kevin Spacey did a very good job playing a very old man! We really believed he was about 80 years old, with his hunched shoulders, slight limp, and silver hair. It was only after final bows when he ran off stage that we remembered he isn't really old at all!
Friday, October 30, 2009
4D Ultrasound
As you can see, we had the big 4D ultrasound today! It was so amazing and I will never forget the feeling that came over me when I saw his little face. Who knew I could fall in love with an image on a screen?
Everything measured perfectly. He is approximately 5.4 lbs, which means he will be 8.4lbs if I make it to 40 weeks. I really hope I can push that out! His head was way down in my pelvis. The technician just said that means he knows where he's supposed to be. I knew he was pretty low, because I can feel all 5.4 lbs of him on my bladder right now. I did throw in one 2D picture for everyone who keeps telling me, "Oh, those ultrasounds aren't always accurate, you may have a girl after all!" I'm pretty sure after today that we are having a boy.
I will see my doctor again on Tuesday, and will continue with weekly appointments until he makes his appearance. I don't know why, but I just think he's going to come early. Watch me go over my due date and you will all refer me back to this posting..hahaha.
Up
Friday, October 23, 2009
Week 32
The Baby Show
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Week 31
Strasberries
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
A Cheesy Confession
It happened on Sunday. Edgar and I were preparing tacos with our stockpiled HEB taco seasoning, topping them with Ranch, made from our stockpiled dry Hidden Valley Ranch stash. We thought we would take it one step further and whip up some cheese dip with our stockpiled Velveeta and Rotel. The cheesy delight was melted and ready for Taco Cabana style flour tortilla dipping. I took one bite and almost couldn't swallow it. It tasted so salty and so...unnatural. I only took 3 bites. Edgar managed to polish off a whole tortilla dipped into it, but even he has agreed that he has lost his taste for it. I just couldn't get over how salty it was! I dug the cardboard container out of our recycle bag to check the ingredients (a very scary thing to do with processed food) and nutrition content. Sure enough, that stuff is loaded with sodium! A half inch slice alone contains almost 20% of your daily intake. We used the small one pounders, so if you use the big box, I'm sure the portion size is even smaller than a half inch. We surmised that the average cheese dip amount we used to eat or anyone probably eats is equal to the entire amount of sodium you should have in one day. The dip is still sitting, very lonely, in our white corning ware dish in the fridge. We may have a proper burial for it soon and say goodbye forever.
So this all got me thinking about how my taste buds have changed these past three years. I always ate what I thought was healthy in the US. I cooked alot and didn't eat junk food. But I also had Sonic, Wendy's, Taco Cabana, and every other food place at my disposal, at least until midnight and sometimes 24 hours a day. When I think back, I indulged more than I should have. I ate too many Lucky Charms and Fruit Loops as snacks. I'm sure I partook (is that even a word?) in too many summer 99cent Sonic sundaes. The list is endless. The don't really have drive-thrus over here, with the exception of the occasional McDonald's or Burger King on the motorway. They don't have a Texas Roadhouse or Olive Garden or Cracker Barrel at every exit. In fact, if you are on a road trip, it's sometimes hard to find a restaurant. You usually have to drive into an actual village and find a pub or something.
But I have also learned that even when I thought I was being healthy, the food in the US can tend to just be flat out unhealthier. For example, next time you buy chicken breasts at the grocery store, notice how gigantic they are. Then read the label...I'm sure it will say something about "broth" or "salt solution". This is just salt injected into the meat to plump it up. Here, the meat is just meat. When I first started buying chicken, I thought I was getting totally jipped because the pieces were so much smaller. Then I realized I was paying for the same amount of actual meat. It's just that in the US, they throw in the salt water to make you think you are getting a great deal. Next example-soups. I admit that the canned soups over here are rubbish. I don't eat them. In the US, canned soups are sometimes the only soup options you have (thanks, Campbell's). Over here, there are tons of refrigerated, fresh soups to choose from...chunky, seasonal, cream of whatever... I bought a carton of Cream of Mushroom soup to pour over my chicken last night. I decided to compare its ingredients with that of Campell's cream of mushroom soup. The soup here had just basic ingredients that you could pronounce and would use if you were making it homemade...mushrooms, milk, celery, onions, etc. The Campbell's, which I looked up online, had at least 3 or 4 different types of oils near the beginning of the list, meaning they are some of the main ingredients. I couldn't believe it! All those tasty meals I used to make with all things Campbell's Cream of ---(reduced fat, reduced sodium or whatever) were just junk. I knew that creamy soups were not exactly healthy back then, but I didn't realize the extent until I had another alternative.
I'm not saying that everything over here is healthier. Trust me, they have their share of processed nasty food. It's just that I feel there are more healthier alternatives that are not considered "healthy" or "low fat", it's just they way they are. There are generally less preservatives, additives, and salt. The milk, bread, yogurts, etc. expire more quickly. And don't even get me started on the bread. I think I'm going to have to buy a bread machine and make my own when we move back. The cereal aisle is an eye opener. Instead of the healthy stuff being pushed into the health food aisle or squeezed into the end of the regular cereal aisle, it's the main selection. The sugar cereals with cute cartoon characters are in the definite minority. One last thing about the grocery stores...there are no temptations at the checkout. That's right...the only thing you have to look at and contemplate slipping on the conveyor belt are a few magazines and maybe some brochures of the store, no candy bars, no refrigerated cases with over sized bottles of Coke. That alone has saved me plenty of calories from peanut M&M's (my checkout vice). The exception to this being Asda, which is Wal-Mart. I don't know why they don't just call it Wal-Mart, but for some reason, when WM opened stores over here, they decided to call them Asda.
Now I am in a quandary. I've not really developed taste buds for many of the foods over here...the meat tastes different, the veggies that are popular are not my favorite, and I just can't make myself crave Indian food (the TexMex of England). Now I'm afraid that I have lost my desire for US foods. Will I still like the bread in Carraba's, the hot fudge sundaes from Sonic, the cheese enchiladas from Romero's? I guess it wouldn't be so bad if some of these things are knocked off my favorites list, I just don't want to be in limbo where nothing tastes good. I guess only time will tell. All I know is that as of this past June, I still enjoyed my last ditch chips and queso from Pappasito's in the airport and I had probably one too many DQ treats. Whether I liked them for nostalgia's sake, hormones, or I truly liked them, it will definitely be another post-expat adjustment.
Monday, October 12, 2009
The Weekend
The rest of the weekend was nothing to write home about...we cooked, we cleaned, we grocery shopped...aren't we so international and exciting?!?!?!
Yeah for Brody!!!
If you would like to see some pictures of the event, just click here
http://www.wacotrib.com/search/mediahub/media/slideshow/index.jsp?tId=191779
Friday, October 09, 2009
Week 30
Edgar is a champ. With only 4 months remaining here in the UK, he began the process to obtain his UK driver's license, just so he can drive me to the hospital. This really eases my mind and is something I'm sure he would rather not be spending his time on right now. This past week, he passed the written portion of the test and will now just need to pass the driving portion in a few weeks. I'm so proud and appreciative of him.
Monday, October 05, 2009
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, BRODY, #5!!!

It's hard to believe that 5 years ago today your very brave mommy brought you into our world. You were the sweetest, cuddliest little baby, and your little face was the cutest I had ever seen. Now, you light up our days with your smile and provide us with endless entertainment as you tell your very imaginative and funny stories. I am so lucky to have you as my nephew and I can't wait until you get to meet our little baby. You will be the best Big Cousin...I'm sure of it. I hope you had fun with all your friends at school today and I will see you in just a few more months!
Love,
Aunt Vonda
Thursday, October 01, 2009
Week 29
Friday, September 25, 2009
Week 28
My next appointment is Tuesday. After that, I start going in every 2 weeks. Is it already time for the every other week appointments??? Holy crap!
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Julie and Julia
So, #1 was Julie and Julia. It was a great movie! Edgar liked it, too. Julie decides to cook her way through all of Julia Child's recipes in her classic cookbook and then blog about it. She had one year to complete over 500 recipes. Meanwhile, a separate storyline traces Julia Child's life as she arrives in France all the way through to the completion of her cookbook. If you get a chance, I recommend you go and see it. Thanks to Lilly for telling me about it.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Week 27
The "Nursery Advice" Session
Thursday, September 10, 2009
Week 26
Remember, you can see my belly getting progressively bigger by clicking on the link to the left.
A Cool Little Coincidence
Wednesday, September 09, 2009
Another Near Tragedy in the Kitchen
One thing you always read is that you get clumsy in pregnancy. I thought maybe I would bump into things since my body is changing shape and I'm not used to carrying around this particular weight. When the stomach expands several inches, that couch is a little closer than it used to be. But I'm beginning to think the clumsy thing is actually true. Last night as I began to prepare the Jamie Oliver Mexican cornbread and tortilla soup, I sliced open the tip of my left thumb. I thought I might need stitches it was so bad. It appears to have sealed a bit overnight and now it's just really sore and I have absolutely no feeling in it. Then, a little while later, I dropped said knife onto the floor only inches away from my bare feet. During clean up, I took the knife out of the drainer, whipped it around to put it in the drawer and actually scraped Edgar's arm with the tip of it (don't worry, no blood and he's OK). This is a serious knife, too...not a little paring knife, but a Santuko chef's knife. I NEVER do things like this. I think for every one's safety, I should just stay out of the kitchen.
Monday, September 07, 2009
Tragedy in the Kitchen
Sunday, September 06, 2009
Gumbo!!!
Saturday in Richmond
Thursday, September 03, 2009
Week 25
Ranch AND Sweet Iced Tea
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Week 24
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
7 Years!
So...Happy Anniversary, Babe. You've made the past 7 years magical and adventurous. I can't wait to see what the next year brings and share in all the new memories with you. You are a husband I thought only existed in my dreams and I feel so lucky to have you, your support, and and your love every single day. love you...L&LB
Friday, August 21, 2009
Thursday, August 20, 2009
20 Week Ultrasound
I did it! The video actually uploaded! I hope you enjoy our little boy! Notice at the very beginning how he is doing the bicycle with his legs. I think that he has been taking Spin classes in there lately...and kickboxing.
If you can't see the video above, just click here...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zj4rXSyS96I
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
Summer is Here!
Life has been a little slow for us lately. We are mostly hanging out around the house and visiting with friends. Our baby gear research and shopping is beginning to unfold. For some reason, even though I am obviously pregnant, I feel like an outsider when I visit these baby stores. It's as if I feel like people just look, laugh, and say "What do they think they are doing in here?" And most of the time, we walk around with a deer in headlights look on our faces. We are trying to keep it simple and not be the parents who buy a bunch of un-needed stuff. Since we will be moving back to the US, we'll wait to stock up at that time. For the first six weeks, we're just concentrating on the basic essentials. When you live in a small space and really think about it, it's amazing what you realize you can do without!
This past weekend, we had lunch with our good friends Larren, Deena, and their adorable 8 month old daughter, Keira. They gave us some good advice and Keira is so good and sweet, that we weren't totally scared of our impending parenthood journey.
Sorry there isn't more to report! I'm trying to upload my 20 week ultrasound video to youtube so you can see our little one. I don't know if it will work, but I guess we'll all find out!
Sunday, August 16, 2009
Friday, August 14, 2009
Roujan, France and Barcelona, Spain
August 2-8, 2009
I don't know if you would call our last trip a "Babymoon" or not, but it was probably our last major trip until the baby is born. It has become increasingly uncomfortable for me to fly, especially on these discount airlines where there is absolutely no leg room. I was so happy our latest trip was only a couple of hours on the plane, because I don't think I could have lasted much longer. The up side is that Easyjet makes all pregnant ladies sign a release form that states how many weeks you are and we got to board with the "people with children and those needing assistance" group, thereby avoiding the cattle call that is Easyjet boarding.
Monday, August 10, 2009
21 Weeks
A Little Late, but the End of Mom & Dad's Visit...
(On top of the overlook with the White Cliffs behind)
(The English Channel and all the ferries to France behind us)
We loaded up the car for a little road trip to Dover. Our intention was to see Dover Castle and tour the tunnels used during WWII. The Castle was closed, but it actually worked out for the best, because we were able to spend more time touring the grounds, which were open. There is an overlook located at the front of the grounds that was used to keep an eye on the sky and sea during the wars. The top of the overlook is now a great place to get a good view of the ferry harbor and the White Cliffs of Dover. The overlook, which is actually underground, is a series of bunkers, a communications system and a room with a full wall of windows that was used to view any enemies coming towards the coast. Keep in mind that we chose this day randomly, having no idea of what events may have been going on in the actual town. As we were standing in the overlook, looking out the same windows used by soldiers many years ago, we heard a rumble, looked up and saw a huge WWII airplane flying at eye level to us. We really couldn't believe our eyes! Come to find out, Dover was hosting their annual Dover 2009 event, which is an airshow showcasing everything from vintage planes to modern coast guard helicopters. Dad was beyond himself and I've never seen him move faster than when he climbed the staircase back to the top of the overlook to get a closer look at the plane and take some photos. We admired the airshow for a while before heading down to do the tunnels tour.
I had already taken the tour a few years back, so I hung out in the little cafe while Mom, Dad, and Edgar learned how they were used during the war for everything from communications, to a hospital, to housing. I think they thoroughly enjoyed the tour and learned alot about the Dunkirk retreat, which was a massive operation to move retreating Allied soldiers from France back to the UK. The operation was expected to save maybe 5,000 soldiers, but wound up saving close to 400,000. Pretty amazing.
It was a long day, but it could not have been more perfect. We all headed back to Richmond with smiles on our faces and just a few aching feet.
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Tuesday was their last official day as tourists as they were leaving on Wednesday. We finished it with a bang...Changing of the Guard at Buckingham Palace and a tour through the National Gallery. Unless you get to the Palace 2 hours before the changing begins, you can't expect to get prime views. We thought we had a great outpost, but we wound up not being able to see much of anything happening in the courtyard behind the gates. We at least got to see everyone march in and out and here the band play a few songs.
We headed down the road towards the Texas Embassy for a much deserved lunch of mediocre TexMex. It's pretty good for London, but they would get laughed out of town in Texas.
We then did a quick, whirlwind tour of the National Gallery, where Mom and Dad saw paintings by artists such as Raphael, Van Gough, and Monet. I think they were pleasantly surprised by the art and enjoyed it!
